She might not want your “Im yirtzeh Hashem by you” But she’ll definitely appreciate an
They might be embarrassed if you offer them a loan But they’ll definitely appreciate an
They might not want your kvatter offer But they’ll definitely appreciate an
He’s uncomfortable when you ask how his son’s treatment is going But he will definitely appreciate an
You might not be able to offer to take their kids But you can help them more with an
What is hour of caring?
It’s a machsom l’fi, being careful with your speech and keeping one hourfree of lashon hara, but with daily reminders tokeep you inspired and on track.
What will I receive?
Every day at 12pm (exactly when your machsom starts), you’ll get a video that will make you smile and think, shmiras haloshon Q&A, to help you easily navigate your machsom hour.
its a set period of time each day that you commit to focusing on the proper use of your speech.
What is the Significance of an Hour?
Practically, when a person masters this mitzvah for the limited time period of the Machsom L’Fi, he begins to feel a greater sense of control in his habits of speech, which strengthens his restraint throughout the day.
During this Time
concentrate on avoiding speaking, hearing, reading or writing loshon hora and any other forms of forbidden speech.
Doing a Mitzvah for an hour earns tremendous merit.
For Shmiras Haloshon in particular, the Vilna Gaon states:
Even one moment of restraint earns a reward beyond the comprehension of angels.
“We started this group as a zechus for a shidduch for a family member.
I was convinced that I was doing something for them, but you can’t imagine how much more it did for me and my family."
“"We started a Machsom L'fi in our own home...
Our home has become an island of peace and tranquility as my children try in every situation, to seek the good and the positive.""
Sign up form for Hour of Caring
Sign up form for Hour of Caring
NOTE: You will receive a personalized link to sign up your group members